Krista, I'm dating a guy right now who I'm totally falling for, but I'm a little scared. He cheated on his last girlfriend with multiple women, and I think he might have been dating someone when we met though I'm not completely sure. He's so sweet and thoughtful, and things are moving pretty fast between us because there's so much chemistry, but I can't say I'm completely confident that he won't ever be tempted. Can guys change? Do you think once a cheater, always a cheater? Thank you!!
by Anonymous
This is how I see it… I would never want to date a man who is known to cheat on his girlfriend with multiple women, or one woman for that matter. He will be tempted. He may be sweet and thoughtful on the outside, but inside his hardwire is just the same as when he was cheating. People who cheat have no concept of respect, and that is Game Over for me. I don’t believe “Once a cheater, always a cheater” but I do believe that once is enough to deem him unworthy of dating. Though, this is just my opinion. It is your choice if you wish to give him a chance. But is it really worth it to constantly worry if he will cheat on you or not? Make it easy on yourself and find a man who is respectful and loyal. Life is too short to waste it on assholes.
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